How to be happy though human / by W. Béran Wolfe.

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in a desire for purely personal power to the same sense of power through activity on a high plane of social usefulness. 8. Human beings have always lived, and must always live, in groups. This is mankind’s compensation for the individual weakness of its members. It is the basic law of human psychology. Any personality goal, and any personality pattern, which leaves the social connectedness of human beings out of account, runs counter to nature, and must end in personal disaster. During the early part of an individual’s life he is a parasite on his family, the unit of most social groups. During this period of individuation he is supported by his group while he trains and grows, and thus obviates the greater inferiorities of childhood in the “ normal ” way. He transforms his childhood “ minus ” into a “ plus ” by physical and mental growth and evolution. Thereafter he must contribute to the commonweal; and the “ normal ” human being socializes his childhood goal of power and totality at this time by working out his personal deficiencies in terms of social usefulness. It is the duty of parents to initiate their child into the fellowship of human beings and give him a sense of the dignity of work, which is the individual’s dividend to society for society’s original investment of protection, nutrition, and education during the period of his individuation. 9. Every man fits his experiences into his pattern of life. As we grow we meet many obstacles to our fixed pattern of conduct. Some of these obstacles deflect us from our course, some of them are surmounted or destroyed by us. What we call experience is the impression that is left on us by the interaction between ourselves and the world in which we live. Most of us do not learn from experience, because we have a definite standard of evaluation with which we approach the world about us. This standard of evaluation is called a “ psychic scheme of apper¬ ception ”. It is determined by our goal in life, and because this goal is based on subjective interpretations our reaction to any experience is seldom objective. We