How to be happy though human / by W. Béran Wolfe.

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frame the first commandment of the neurotic decalogue : Thou shalt cultivate the primacy of thy ego above all the things in the cosmos. Let thy ego be the sole measure of the value of all things. t 2. The second basic characteristic of all the neuroses follows directly on the fundamental fallacy of the primacy of the individual ego and the belief in the egocentric scheme of the cosmos. If the intactness of the ego be maintained at all costs, it follows inevitably that the problems, tasks, and activities of the objective world must be abjured and avoided. Were the neurotic to attempt the solution of the three great problems of social adjustment, vocation, and sexual fulfilment, the primacy of his ego could not be maintained. Reality and common sense would intervene and teach him that cooperation, not egoism, is essential to a happy existence. The primary goal of each neurotic style of life is the avoidance of the objective problems and tests of ordinary life. To this end each neurosis is a purposive pattern of behaviour, logical in conception (according to the private logic of the neurosis), and rational in technique (according to the goal of the neurosis). Single neurotic traits and activities can be understood only when you understand the neurotic’s objective, and once you have understood that the neurotic is attempting to maintain the uniqueness of his ego you know that he must retreat from reality and all its implications, and must substitute a system of egocentric values, private logic, special privileges, and unique behaviour for the universal values, simple logic, ordinary behaviour—in a word, the common sense of normal behaviour. The second commandment of the neurotic decalogue follows : Thou shalt abjure and avoid all tests and problems which might detract from thy belief in the magical primacy of thy ego. Thou shalt maintain a special code of individual ethics and of private logic. In the neurotic cosmos, common sense, cooperation, and reality shall be taboo. 3. The third distinguishing characteristic of the neurosis is the underlying emotional undercurrent of fear