How to be happy though human / by W. Béran Wolfe.

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something, so the cure of vanity and pride, two egregiously disruptive character traits, consists not in putting your possessions aside and courting Our Lady Poverty, but in diverting all your life’s efforts to their useful elaboration in the larger cooperation of human life. If it is childish to be vain about your beauty, it is as futile to be proud of your wealth or intellectual capacity. Intellectual capabilities become interesting only if you can make them pay dividends in social usefulness. If you are proud because you are a better surgeon than your neighbour ; if you are vain because you have invented a new electric light which brings illumination to the poorest home ; if you feel a personal glow of self¬ esteem because the bridge you designed brings thousands of people nearer to their work or to their homes, then the world will pardon your vanity as reasonably justified. All other forms of vanity anger your neighbours and focus their hostility on your head. In the last analysis, vanity is a waste of time. In a cooperative venture of the titanic proportions of our civilization, vanity, boastfulness, pride, self-centredness are poor tools for acquiring the peace and security necessary to the happiness of each individual. They bring tension and conflict in their wake and preclude the larger awarenesses and the more meaningful experiences of the good life. Ambition : Its Use and Misuse A word about ambition which rates as a virtue in the copybooks, but on investigation, betrays itself as a vice in nearly every instance. You have no doubt heard some business acquaintance say : “ When I have made my pile I will devote all my time to charity.” This is one of the most insidious forms of personal ambition. The desire to get ahead at all costs is nothing but a form of vanity. Getting ahead usually involves putting someone else out of the running. The ambitious man has very