How to be happy though human / by W. Béran Wolfe.

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he now feels he has lost. His ignorance of the language and customs of the Carpathian mountaineers (comparable to the child’s ignorance of the mature world) leads him to misinterpret as hostility the surprise and astonishment of those he asks for instructions. He becomes more and more discouraged, more and more entangled in the web of his own ignorance. This confusion and conflict is the actual situation of his neurosis. How should we help such a man ? Ten steps are necessary to clarify his way, and put him on his road again. If we would cure anyone of a neurosis we must pursue the following plan : i, The establishment of the stranger’s confidence in our good will. 2, The clarifica¬ tion of his present situation (showing him his present whereabouts on the map). 3, The analysis of his faulty technique (tracing back his course from Paris, and explanation of his mistakes early in his trip). 4, The re-establishment of the stranger’s confidence in his ability to proceed (showing him that his mistake has not been fatal, and demonstrating that nothing has been lost but a little time and effort). 5, Effecting a rec6nciliation between the stranger and the inhabitants of the strange country in which he finds himself, and encouraging him to make adjustments to other strangers he will meet on the way (explaining the seeming hostility as a result of his own ignorance of the country’s customs). 6, The planning of a new route to his destination (where necessary this may include a change of destination when the destination lies beyond his powers or the capacity of his car). 7, Instruction in the art of reading maps in order to make him more independent and to preclude the repetition of mistakes. 8, Encouragement to proceed undismayed by his former failures. 9, Encouragement to share his trip with some other traveller who has a similar destination. 10, Instruction in the nature of some of the beauties that lie off the direct path, and encourage¬ ment to visit scenes that the stranger did not realize existed (development of artistic or creative abilities, and the extension of horizons).