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Love—Contini4ed between members of the same sex, 239-41 can never be demanded, 329 common manifestations of the competitive spirit in, 315 conditions of existence, 164 defined, 327 domineering, 325 emotional infantilism and romantic idealism, 319, 320-31 erotism, 327 frequency of mistaken conduct and unhappiness in, 118, 295 happy reward of a correctly and normally lived life, 322-3 lack of appropriate environment, 331 psychological process of “ falling in love ”, 321-2 psychology of the “ unlucky in love ”, 247 real requisites for a happy, 328 relation of jealousy to, 163-4 solution of problem of, 328-31 undermining of, 330 value of mature, 326-8 (see also Marriage and Sex) Love in the Machine Age, Dell, 5 8 Luck, cult of good, 255 MacDougall, William, on purposive psychology, 271 Magic, belief in, 255 Man, disproportionate development of mental and physical faculties, 27 mental and physical recapitulation of race evolution, 3 3 only living organism that experiences a sense of its own inadequacy, 28 social bonds, 30, 38 weakness, 26, 78 (see also Human nature) Manic-depressive insanity, 186, 192, 268 Marie, case of, 48 Marriage, arranged, 326 as solution of the problem of bi¬ sexuality, 31 effects of romantic infantilism, 320- 3i essential attributes of a good, 203, 296 false methods of choosing partners, 298-300 frequency of mistaken conduct and unhappiness in, 295 Marriage—Continued ignorance of sex as a cause of disaster, 300-8 importance of contraception, 304, 306-8 no definite norm of happiness, 296 prophylactic value of an occasional “ sabbatical separation ”, 329 solution of problem of, 328-31 task and contract requiring long and assiduous preparation, 303 three great causes of unhappiness, 300-28 value of intelligent contracting of, 326 Martyrdom, futility, 138 professional, a side-show, 229 “ wrong ” job, 230-1 Masochism, 233-4 Masturbation, 234-9 among domesticated animals, 235 cure, 237-9 legalized opportunities for mutual, 246 origin in discouragement, 237 psychological implications, 235 Mathilda K., case of, 160-2 Matriarchy, early existence of, 58, 310 Maturity, emotion adjustment, 348 everything relative in, 348-51 frequent lack of social, 224 goal of completeness and totality, 15 normal attack on the battlefront of life, 202 sought in inadequacies of childhood, triumph of, 332-61 Medical profession, Christian Science invades the field of, 288 ignorance of dynamics of con¬ version neurosis, 277 Melancholia, 192, 269, 275 Memory, a creative faculty, 177 an index of goal, 178 cannot cause behaviour, 178 childhood, 176-9 function, 176-9 value of forgetting,. 179 Mental hygiene, emphasis on pro¬ phylaxis, 206 Messalina, 86 Metaphysics, time wasted on, 103 Migraine, 277 Mill, John Stuart, 351 Money, as a fiction of power, 105 not the measure of a man’s service, 202 b b